Do you still remember the news that a 67-year-old Ms. Tian gave birth to a daughter in Zaozhuang, Shandong Province? After such news appeared on the Internet, various voices came one after another. As the age increases, who will take care of the children, the arrival of the children, and whether the two elders can afford it financially. With the fermentation of public opinion, 10 years ago, the 60-year-old woman Sheng Hailin risked her "death" to give birth to twins. Sheng Hailin was once again criticized by everyone. Lift.
Sheng Hailin originally had a happy family. Both husband and wife were born in military families, and their family conditions are also very good. After they got married, they also had a lovely daughter. The family was happy and happy, which was very exciting. Envy, when her daughter grows up, she finds her husband and starts a family. Sheng Hailin and his wife also retired at this time and began to enjoy their old age.
But something unexpected happened. On the occasion of the Spring Festival in 2009, Sheng Hailin's daughter and son-in-law happily returned to their hometown for the New Year, but they died of gas poisoning. After receiving such news, Sheng Hailin never thought about it. Such a thing will happen to me. It is difficult to accept it for a while, and I will fall into infinite sorrow.
Suffering from grief, Sheng Hailin, who often missed her daughter, came up with a bold idea, that is, if there was another child around her, maybe she could escape from it quickly, so Sheng Hailin began to beg for help. She asked if she could fill the pain of losing her daughter through surrogacy or adoption, but after looking around, she couldn't find a way, so she decided to give birth to one herself.
Ke Sheng Hailin is already 60 years old this year. Such an advanced maternal age has never appeared before. Whether she can get pregnant is still a question. In addition, giving birth at such an age has certain risks, but Sheng Hailin cannot care about that. More, she has already decided.
In the following days, she began to appear in major hospitals. After several rounds, no hospital had such a risk of catching a cold. Fortunately, with her persistence, a hospital agreed to do an in vitro fertilization for her. The test tube was successful, and we were waiting for the birth of the child, but something went wrong soon after. Sheng Hailin had to have a caesarean section, and the children were born under one month old. They were twins. In this case, both children would have to live in an incubator. .
The next step is the high medical expenses. At first, the family can still support it, but as time goes by, financial problems also arise. At this time, Sheng Hailin hired a nanny in order to give her children a good life. , she went out to earn money by herself. She used to be a doctor and worked tirelessly to give speeches. She earned a lot of money and her living conditions improved, but other problems appeared again.
Being busy with work, she naturally lacked care for her children. Therefore, when the child was 9 years old, one of her children suddenly became seriously ill. This made Sheng Hailin worried. After being questioned by the doctor, She thought it was due to her own mistakes, so she began to concentrate on taking care of her children. At this time, she was already 69 years old.
She is often exhausted from taking care of her child's daily life every day, and her body can no longer bear such a torment. In addition, the age gap between her and her child is another generation, and communication has become impossible. So smoothly, under various conditions, Sheng Hailin felt it was very difficult. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, she said:
Although she is very happy now with two daughters, if she had the choice, she would not give birth to them.
Sheng Hailin is lucky and hard-working. At this time, she may not have thought that she risked her life at the age of 60 to give birth to twins. Now, in the face of the cruel reality, she will be Defeated, he will bow his head.
Now that Sheng Hailin’s two daughters have grown up, she hopes that their family can spend every day of their lives in peace.
This also reminds everyone that no matter what you do, you should think twice and make preparations.