Every parent has great expectations for their children and hopes that their children will grow up and have a bright future. Therefore, when naming their children, many people will attach their own expectations to the child's name, hoping that the child will be like his name. After the baby is born, many parents want to give their child a nice name, but if they don't care about naming their child or don't pay attention to it, it will also make the child very distressed.
Situation
My friend Ms. Li gave birth to a lovely baby. Before the baby was born, the family thought of some names. But when the baby was born, Ms. Li immediately rejected all the previous names when she saw the cute baby. If she wants to have a nice name, it must have meaning, be innovative, reflect her family's cultural quality, and impress people. In order to name the baby, Ms. Li did not eat or drink, and did a lot of research to find a name for the baby.
One day, the husband had an idea and hurriedly discussed it with his wife and called it "Nianshu"! Not only elegant but classy, ??it sounds catchy. The kid's name is sure to be a hit. In addition, the homophony of "Nianshu" is also a good meaning. Upon hearing this name, Ms. Zhang also felt that it was very innovative. In addition, the girl's name "Nianshu" is also very nice, but later she called her first and last name together, which made her mother think it was strange. She refused immediately. Her husband looked puzzled and asked: Why? My mother replied unhappily: You don’t even know what your last name is. What does your name mean? Bai Nianshu, what does this name mean? What's the meaning?
After hearing this, the husband suddenly realized that something was wrong. Such a name had a very unpleasant homophonic sound. Doesn’t this mean that all books are read in vain?
Later, the parents thought carefully for a long time and finally named the child "Bai Xinfei", which is very poetic and refreshing.
Analysis
There are many things to consider when naming your child. If you don't choose a good name, your child may become the laughing stock of others in the future. Therefore, as a parent, when choosing a name, you must be careful not to touch these "minefields"
Try not to use uncommon words.
Some parents want to add some uncommon words to their children's names, but this will also bring a lot of trouble to their children. Many people may not know these words, so they have to ask their children to explain them every time. After a long time, the children will find it very troublesome. In addition, writing uncommon characters is troublesome, and it may be a waste of time for children to pronounce their own names every time, especially during exams.
Do not use duplicate names.
We can always see that many names are very similar, which is also related to the popularity of the name. What kind of names are popular when, such as ancient names that have been popular for a period of time, and modern names that have been popular for a period of time. If the child's name has a high repetition rate with other children's names, the child will also feel embarrassed when meeting many people with the same name and surname due to many misunderstandings in life.
Avoid "homonymous" meanings
It is also very embarrassing if a child's name has "homophones" in it. , such as "Xiong Chumo, Zhu Huifei", etc., names that make people want to laugh will bring great embarrassment to the children. Although people won’t laugh in front of each other, it’s inevitable to talk behind their backs. Therefore, as a parent, you must avoid words with homophones to avoid unnecessary embarrassment and misunderstandings and protect your children's self-esteem.
A good name will give children more confidence and is also the most intuitive reflection of parents’ expectations and blessings for their children. Changing your name is also a hassle. Therefore, parents should be very careful when naming their children. What do you think about this? Everyone is welcome to leave your own opinions. @小陈talks