Naming with vulgar words: lack of self-cultivation
As a tool used by people to communicate with each other, names often leave an unforgettable first impression on many occasions. Therefore, when choosing names, you should try to avoid words that are too vulgar.
A vulgar name often gives people the feeling that it will be a lifelong regret for a delicate and beautiful person wearing dirty clothes. The name is the first impression on people. Therefore, when we choose a name, we should choose an elegant and cultivated name. In that way, even if a person is not very elegant, he will be more distinguished in the eyes of people who do not know him well. Elegant and elegant. On the contrary, a tacky name can easily give people a rustic feeling, and it is easy for others to judge your temperament and knowledge based on your name. Especially before the interview or when others have not seen you, just looking at your name will already determine the person you are suitable for. your rating. For example, women named "Plum Blossom", "Lan Gu", etc. often give people a rustic feeling. People can easily judge based on this name that such women must still stay in a self-sufficient natural economic living environment. Living in the mountains, never stepping out of the mountains, and whose ideas are lagging behind the times, they are people without knowledge and ambition. And if men are named "Fugui", "Wangcai", "Goudan", "Heihei", etc., it will also give people a very tacky and low-level feeling.
This is because usually these rustic and vulgar words are too straightforward. The so-called straightforwardness means that the expression of the name is too straightforward, too simplistic, not euphemistic, and has no meaning. For example: Wang Nannan, Shi Daxian, Xie Tiandi, Li Merchant, Qian Fulai, etc. If a person's name has a superficial meaning and lacks far-reaching artistic conception, others will have a feeling of no change when they first see the name, and may feel bored and boring.
The name lacks meaning and meaning, so it has a weak sense of beauty. Such a name can usually only be regarded as a material that has not been carefully processed, and it is difficult to give people a basic sense of beauty, let alone art. If it is to be used as a name, further processing is required.
The content of these names is usually single and superficial, light, weightless, and lacking in depth. If you want to process such a name, you must develop it deeply and widely; only by opening your mind can you see the new world.
The name has a single content and superficial meaning, so it cannot attract people’s attention and win people’s favor. A beautiful name should be an exquisite work of art, full of variety and depth, and cannot be as boring as boiled water.
The so-called vulgar words are rough and primitive words. There are three main manifestations of naming with vulgar characters: First, it is ideological vulgarity. The naming follows the old rules and uses common sayings to reflect backward values ??and aesthetic consciousness. For example, if the old clichés of the past are used, the naming still revolves around blessings, wealth, wealth, honor and ancestors. , gold and silver jewelry, Yinghua orchids, three cardinal principles and five constants, etc. come to get them, but you can't go out of the old way, such as: Yuanbao, Youde, Shuxian, Laifu, Zongli, Shouxian, etc. The second is to use common proverbs in naming, just to make it "ready-made", so that it is easy, convenient and fast to choose a name. However, they ignore this point, and such names usually lack freshness. For example: normal, high mountain, big river, Chinese, Tang poetry, composition, Xuanxu, application, capital, gold, kindness, Song poetry, Gaosheng, orchid, etc. Repetition is also mediocre and tacky, and cannot give people a sense of beauty and freshness. If there are too many people with the same name in society, it will not only be detrimental to the individual, but will also cause some unpredictable "social problems". For example, it brings all kinds of troubles in postal communications, telephone calls, telegraphs, bank savings, household registration files, visiting relatives and friends, statistical management, as well as compatriots on both sides of the Taiwan Strait and overseas Chinese in tracing their roots, tracing their ancestors, and visiting their genealogies. It may even provide criminals with the opportunity to steal or impersonate their name, or use it as their own, causing misunderstandings.
Vulgarity is a sign of inelegantness. No one likes vulgarity, nor does he like vulgar names.
There is only one way to solve the problem of "tackiness", which is to take a new path, use new words and write new meanings, that is, to abandon the old and try the new.
All old, familiar, and familiar ideas and words must be thrown away, and new paths and new words must be forged. This is naturally difficult and requires a lot of time and energy.
In general, what kind of person you want your child to become in the future depends on what kind of connotation his name has. For example: If you want your child to become a talented person, you can name him Liangdong. Dong means pillar. But it is best not to call them Liu Chengcai, Li Chengcai, etc. Such names are too vulgar and may lead to duplication of names. If you want your child to be associated with art in the future, you might as well name him or her Yi Yuan.
Be careful when naming your child. Using a name that is too vulgar will make the child look down upon by others before they interact with others, which will hinder the child's development.
Sometimes the name is like the packaging. If a very ordinary thing is packaged with exquisite accessories, it will have extraordinary effects. This is just like clothes. If the clothes are unclean and the clothes are not clean, people will laugh at you. Because names will follow each of us for a lifetime, and a person's name embodies a person's aesthetic taste and pursuit. Therefore, you should choose a good name to decorate your life and make it shine.
An elegant and profound name is as wonderful as poetry, as beautiful as pictures, and as mellow as wine. It will not only be evocative and unforgettable, but also be like the warm breath that permeates the flowers under the morning sun, refreshing the heart and mind. , will consciously or unconsciously cultivate the mind of the name owner, improve his (her) behavior, and play a subtle role.
A good name can give people the feeling of a breeze blowing against their face, while a common name can give people an unpleasant feeling of psychological rejection and should be avoided as much as possible.