I got together with a friend some time ago and chatted about the current situation of my college classmates. My friend told me that xxx was admitted to Chongqing Normal University, xxx was doing well in Shanghai, and xxx worked in a tutoring institution in Harbin. The person who surprised me the most was a boy in our department who often skipped classes and failed classes. He quickly got married, had children, and became a civil servant in just one year after graduation. When we were in college, we were terrified every time we reviewed for the finals, for fear that we would fail any subject. At this time, someone would say in the dormitory, there is someone like xx (this boy) blocking us, and he will not fail, so don’t worry! Facts have proved that this is indeed the case. This boy will fail every exam, and even if he fails, he will not get angry. However, he and his girlfriend have been together for many years. After hearing the news that the girl was pregnant, he changed his usual inaction and calmly said, "We want this child. We will take responsibility and work hard to raise him." Be healthy and fat.
For such an "unreliable" person to actually embark on a serious and serious path of shouldering heavy responsibilities, not only does it make me look at him with new eyes, but I also want to give him a big thumbs up.
The mother I want to talk about today also looks very "unreliable". Take a look at a few pictures to get a feel for it:
In fact, looking at her appearance, who She would not even associate her with the mother of her child. When she participated in "Mamma Mia" in May this year, she surprised the judges as soon as she came on the stage. She said, "My name is Chen Jie, I am born in 1995, and I am 22 this year." Years old, my nickname is Pili, and my baby is almost five months old. She is such an unreliable "mother" who has changed a lot after having children. From a girl who was a little impatient in dealing with things, she has become a girl who focuses on her children. She also uses her sewing skills from time to time. A mother who dresses her son in fashionable clothes. When her mother first found out she was pregnant, she scolded her for two days, and her husband also faced his mother's "interrogation": How to raise the child? I had just graduated a year ago and my job was still unstable. You are still a child yourself, how do you raise a child well? Also, who will take care of the children? These real problems were placed in front of them, and they didn't know what to do, so they agreed to go to the hospital. In the hospital, Chen Jie felt very uncomfortable and wronged, so she started crying. Her husband said, "Why don't we run away?" . She asked, "Really?" Then the two of them made a cool decision together: leaving the little life in their bellies, they rolled over and slipped out of the hospital. The parents saw their attitude and acquiesced to them keeping the child. A few months later, the baby was born safely. After the baby was born, they took on the responsibilities on their shoulders. They took care of the baby by themselves. The husband was serious and worked down-to-earth. The two of them ran this warm little family with their heart. . She said in the program: I am a person who makes my family feel unreliable in terms of appearance and behavior. I want to take this opportunity to prove myself and let everyone see that those unreliable people in your mouth, They are not like you said, they have their own responsibilities. Maybe they don't do it now, but at some point in time, they will definitely let you see it. I also want to sincerely say sorry to the parents on both sides and express my gratitude. It is their parents' support that has brought them to this point. They named the child: Lu Mian. The word Mian means a life of elegance and wisdom, while Lu means Lin Luchuanze. To care about the world, you must also take care of yourself. Judge Cheng Lei sitting below said: Many people say that the post-90s and post-95s generations are unreliable, but I can see from you that you not only have your own personality, but also have responsibilities.
Now that the story is over, let’s take a look at the little life of this family of three. Be prepared for a wave of beautiful pictures to come:
Chen Jie’s pregnancy photos
Cute baby Lu Mian
Handsome parents
Gentle, beautiful Mom
Cool dad
Visually, this family of three is absolutely stunning when walking on the road~~~
Finished admiring the beautiful photos! This lovely post-95s mother also doesn’t forget to “black out” her baby. The funny mother is now online!
Takeaway boy: The takeout you ordered has arrived!
The emoticon package for kids is now online!
Aliens are coming quietly~~~
This cute little koi, I wish everyone all the best!
I admire this contemptuous little look very much!
What's going on? Brother wants to have a fight?
In addition to these, this young mother also has another admirable skill: the clothes she sews for her baby are so dexterous and fashionable that even she can’t help but praise herself.
Mom, you can switch to clothing. You have dressed your baby up so fashionably since he was a child. How can he still do it when he grows up?
Ethnic-style shoes~~~
With this color and this style, you can wear them, baby, for street photography. It’s all right.
From the very beginning when they were questioned and not favored, to now they have managed their small life to be a prosperous and prosperous life. They have really done it. But behind this colorful life, it really takes time and energy to work hard. Beautiful things all require hard work. In addition, sometimes it’s hard to draw conclusions easily about whether something is reliable or not.
When I scrolled through Weibo this morning, I saw the hot topic "The views on marriage of the post-95s generation". The previous middle-aged theory of 1992, and now the views of marriage of the post-95s generation, the post-90s generation has really moved forward. The road to maturity. Many of my peers around me have already entered the marriage hall. Things that I once thought were far away are suddenly right in front of me. Although it is a bit melancholy, I still have to shoulder the responsibilities well. Pick it up. Last week I contacted a friend who was my high school classmate in 1993. She had just given birth to a baby, but she was feeling very depressed and powerless. Her husband’s attitude before and after marriage was completely different. She told me that she was numb now. No more storms or waves could make her sad anymore. After listening to these words, I feel very sad. Why does a person in his 20s lose his passion for life? But I don’t know what her specific situation is, and I can’t comfort her. I just have a deep sense of powerlessness, and it’s sad that I can’t help her.
There are more and more new mothers born in the 1990s, and we are beginning to face a lot of real pressures, trivial matters in life and financial problems. You will also find that marriage is not as simple as you imagined, and issues that you thought were nothing before may become the trigger of your war. But I want to say that a person's life needs to be managed well, let alone a lifelong marriage? When a problem comes, don’t hide from it, face it and actively seek solutions. Appropriately add a sense of ritual in your life, or take a lazy half-day to go out and have a date with your husband. And don’t forget your little hobbies, singing, painting, and crafts. In short, be diligent, work hard, and live an active life! Mothers born in the 1990s, although you may be at a loss when your child is sick and has a fever, and you may blame yourself for what is wrong with your child, but as new mothers on the road, we will definitely do better and better. Come on, mom born in the 1990s, you can live a beautiful life!