Duke Zhou:
Dreaming of the boy you secretly love means that you think during the day and dream at night, but whether you interact in the dream determines the key to your future development.
It is a good sign that the boy who dreams of secret love is very cold to himself, which indicates that your relationship will develop smoothly and will not encounter any obstacles.
The boy who dreams of unrequited love is very enthusiastic about himself, which indicates that you may be betrayed by unrequited love in the near future, or his feelings for you have deteriorated. I suggest you prepare yourself mentally.
Dreaming that the boy you secretly love is far away from you shows that you and the person you secretly love have opportunities for development in real life, but they often miss opportunities. I suggest you grasp it well and realize different development.
Dreaming that the boy you have a crush on is married shows that whether you can draw a clear line with him depends entirely on your attitude.
Dreaming that the wife who secretly loves boys has children indicates that you will have many opportunities to go out and make good friends in the near future; At the same time, it is also a good sign for you to get promoted in your studies or career.
The boy who dreamed of secretly kissing you was rejected, which indicates that your overall fortune will be improved in the near future, and there will be noble people to help you and achieve good success.
Dreaming that the boy who secretly loves me ignores me indicates that your friend will have good luck and make new friends in the near future. But because of anxiety, it is easy to quarrel with each other because of a little thing. I suggest you control your emotions and don't affect each other's feelings.
Boys who dream of secret love have a bad relationship with each other, which indicates that your interpersonal relationship will improve and your relationship may appear in another form.
Dreaming of the boy you secretly love and getting along well with him shows that you are lonely and depressed now.
Dreaming that the boy you secretly love looks at you from a distance shows that there is something wrong with your communication with him, which may affect your current relationship. This is an ominous sign.
Dreaming that a boy who has a crush on you kisses himself or associates like lovers shows that your chances of becoming lovers with him are slim. It is recommended to evacuate when it is not too deep.
Dreaming of the boy you secretly love more than once shows that your feelings for him have been excessively depressed psychologically, and your mood has been relatively low recently. I suggest you cheer up and have a good talk with your intimate friends, which will not only resolve the knot but also ease your mood.
What does it mean to dream of a boy who has a crush on me? I always dream of a boy who has secretly loved me for three years in high school after a period of time. In my dream, I will be with him, and he will pursue me, even holding hands and making out, but I have a boyfriend now, and I love him very much and get along well with him. I will struggle in my dream and know that I have a boyfriend, but I am still very excited and happy when I am with that boy in my dream … but that doesn't mean I still like him.
This dream often appears, especially recently, and it is always repeated every two or three months, and the content is similar. I am confused ... I don't know why.
Dream non-analysis
The dreamer's confusion stays at the psychological level, which is a kind of moral anxiety. In fact, in high school, you were unrequited, but in the dream, he actively pursued you and made out with you. This is to seek inner balance, or to realize some hidden desire. This dream has appeared frequently recently, which is closely related to your current love life. You have a boyfriend now, and you get along well. The sweetness now makes up for the bitterness of unrequited love in the past to some extent, but subconsciously you feel betrayed by the previous relationship. Your dreams are repetitive, and it is by doing this kind of repair work repeatedly that you can achieve a certain balance between reality and the past.
Xishandianping
Having this dream before the present boyfriend appears is the fulfillment of spiritual balance and subconscious desire. I'm still having this dream after my current boyfriend appeared, which is a bit complicated to explain.
The biggest possibility is that the dreamer's subconscious is creating an Oedipus triangle, namely the dreamer, ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend. Because the ex-boyfriend is actually unrequited love, not an actual lover, this triangle relationship is of course fictional. But do dreamers need to fabricate such a triangle in their psychological structure to deliberately cause moral anxiety?
Dreams are always doing self-repair and treatment. So we can only say that this is the need of self-treatment. "Ex-boyfriend" is the object that the dreamer once loved, and the current boyfriend is the object that he loves today. When the dreamer enjoys the return of the current boyfriend's love, the fictional love from the ex-boyfriend in the past dream is continued rather than abandoned, or even strengthened. This situation is likely to symbolically repair the trauma of the dreamer in the early object relationship. In the early object relationship, in the triangle relationship between the dreamer's infancy and the bad breast and the good breast, the integration dilemma of the bad breast and the good breast appeared, and the baby would rather fantasize about the bad breast getting better than ignore the existence of the good breast. Babies have no sense of morality, can't control their anxiety and can't dispel their fantasies. Now they can try it in a more mature and similar structure.
The analysis of dreams and non-dreams has broken the fictional relationship, freed the dreamer from conscious troubles and changed on the unconscious level: I can finally give up my persistent loyalty to bad breasts and accept good breasts!