Haha, it’s normal. There is a love-child plot. You and your husband live a lifetime, which is a long time. But in the first half, your husband is with your mother. She and her son don’t have much time, so you Your mother-in-law thinks you have robbed her son. In fact, you can look at things from another angle. It is not easy for an elder to raise a child. You will also be a mother in the future. You treat her as an elder and give her everything. After all, I think Her life is really not easy, just like your mother, I think you are very filial! If you can understand your mother, why can't I understand your mother-in-law? In fact, it’s not about obeying advice, it’s just respect for the elders. Children are learning from their elders. What you do now will be treated the same by your children in the future. Moreover, your husband loves you very much, so it’s worth it for him!