Hebazi is a traditional Chinese folk marriage custom. It is mostly used in old Chinese marriage customs and was called Buji in ancient times. In ancient marriages, compatibility of the horoscopes was an important step. If the two people did not have the same horoscopes, the marriage would not be successful.
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The male zodiac sign is too prosperous for calamity, and if the star of his wife, the God of Wealth, is damaged, it can be matched with a female horoscope who has many injured officials. On the contrary, if there are too many calamities in the female horoscope, she should cooperate with the male god of food and wounded officials, so that they can harmonize with each other and turn bad luck into good luck. Other gods can be understood by analogy.
Regardless of the horoscopes of men and women, if the horoscopes of men and women cooperate with each other and can balance the five elements, each can get what he needs, each can get what he wants, and there is no partiality, it is a good marriage. For example, the horoscope of gold is too prosperous, and if it is combined with the horoscope of gold as the joy and god, it will become a good match.
Based on the combination of the Sun Stem, it would be better if the horoscopes of both parties are neutral, there is no serious harm, and the Sun Stem of both parties is integrated into one body and they like to use the gods. Often, this couple will be of the same mind. One body is enviable. For example: a person born on Day A and a person born on Day A, or a person born on Day B and a person born on Day Geng, etc. This is the combination of yin and yang, and they become happy partners.
Based on the perspective of the Earthly Branches on birthdays, the male’s sun branch is the wife’s palace, and the female’s sun branch is the husband’s palace. If they can cooperate with each other and do not harm each other, or merge into the gods, then it is a good marriage. If the sun branches are in conflict with each other, but there is another conjunction god who can resolve the opposition, then the bad luck can be turned into good luck.
5. It is best not to have six horoscopes in the horoscopes of both parties. If they conflict, they will be unstable and often cannot reconcile their personalities. For example: one party's life palace is Zi, and the other party's life palace is Wu; or one party's life palace is Yin, and the other party's life palace is Shen. The rest can be deduced by analogy. Because, in the past, there was a local saying: "If a soldier dies, he is not buried; if a charcoal digger is buried, he is not dead." Therefore, it has become a taboo for people to choose a son-in-law or a daughter to marry.
With the development and changes of the times, people's concepts of marriage are often closely related to the political situation at that time. There are hot spots in choosing a marriage partner in each period. In the old society, local people said that when choosing a son-in-law, those who had a daughter who did not marry a soldier were afraid of losing their lives on the battlefield and became a widow; those who had a daughter who did not marry a businessman were afraid that they would be abandoned in the process; "if a daughter did not marry a charcoal digger," they were afraid of their lives. It’s hard to end without protection.