A name is a symbol of a person. A "outstanding" name can indeed make people remember it immediately, but everything has two sides, and a "outstanding" name also brings a lot of trouble.
First of all, the first problem is that I may be nicknamed by my classmates. For example, when I was in school, there was a girl named "Xiang Ruhua" in the class. It didn't matter if she was beautiful. The key was that she was dark, fat, oily, and she liked to wear colorful clothes. Bright skirt. So her classmates loved to call her Ruhua affectionately. Over time, she became equated with Ruhua in the movie, and she became more and more inferior. Later, she changed schools and I heard that she changed her name to "Xiang Hua".
Secondly, if your name is too outstanding, you may be troubled by being called on by the teacher to answer questions. Especially when faced with confusing questions such as checking the recitation of ancient Chinese and analyzing difficult physics problems, the first thing that teachers often think of, besides the students who are distracted, is the students with outstanding names.
In fact, outstanding names also include a lot of rare characters in the name, characters that even Chinese teachers rarely see. Not only are the strokes complex, but the pronunciation is also rarely known. This leads to the third problem, that is, during the exam, others have often answered two questions, and his name has just been written, which wastes precious time.
So a truly good name must not only be elegant, refined, catchy, and have a good meaning, but it must also not cause ambiguity or bad associations. If the name can make up for the lack of the five elements, then that’s it. It couldn't be better.
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Author: Wang Shiwen is the first author of emotional financial management novels in China. He is the author of the best-selling books "Meeting Money with You - The Most Touching Emotional Financial Management Story", "I Understand Your Financial Management Anxiety", etc. WeChat public account: Wen Gong Tuan.