Everyone actually has his own personal life and destiny. Where to go, where to go, who to meet and what to do, all have more or less "fate" in it.
The "predestination" here is like a bridge, which is erected between the rivers isolated from our fate, so that we can move forward calmly and indifferent to life.
In life, many people think that my life is up to me, which is the real human physiological desire and great realm. To tell the truth, young people need to have the ideal and vision of "I am the master of my life". Because you are full of vigor, you need to work hard and shoulder heavy responsibilities. However, when people reach a certain age, they will clearly understand that sometimes our "life" may not be completely controlled by ourselves.
Think about it, is your present job consistent with your imagination? Can you foresee the city and environment where you live now? Can you know your current situation in advance?
Actually, everything is unknown. Just like the trajectory of fate, you don't know where it is going, you just know to let it go. The so-called "nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory." In life, unhappy "August 9" events account for the majority, and the only happy "December 12" event is just a gift from fate.
Many times, it's not that we don't believe in fate, but that you can't help but believe in it completely. You know, life is eight feet, but one foot is hard to find. Everything is not entirely up to us.
People are in the vast world, and most of them are doomed in "invisibility".
Just like a job, two people with the same background and skills apply. Why do they produce different results?
The former is praised by others, and the latter can only leave in a mess. These two different results can only show that the former is related to this job and the latter is not related to this job.
The reason is the same. Many people think that I am on the same starting line as him. Why do we feel "parted ways" when running? It is because other people's fate trajectory is different from yours. Just like in winter, can you see two snowflakes with the same shape? Actually, you can't find it at all.
So "everything is life, and nothing can be helped by people." This sentence may sound a little negative. However, when you have experienced more, you will understand that you can only influence some things. There is an ancient saying that man and everything prosper.
Of these three points, you can only influence the "harmony between people", but can you influence the other two points? To be honest, you can't influence it.
How can life be as complete as expected? These words actually came from Liu Bowen, who predicted 500 years before and after. In fact, it shows that life can't know everything.
You can get what you deserve, and you can't get what you lose.
Just like a friend before, I met my true love because the train was late. This one-hour delay actually changed his fate for the rest of his life.
Afterwards, he said with emotion, "If this train didn't break down and need maintenance, and he just booked this train, it was an hour late, otherwise, he would have missed his present lover."
This kind of scene has actually happened to many people.