Everything in the world flourishes or declines under the principle of restraint of yin and yang, and people are no exception. Men are yang, women are yin, and both men and women have Jin Mu's five lives. Therefore, the marriage between men and women is essentially the result of interaction, combination and interdependence between yin and yang. As the saying goes, solitary yin is not born, and solitary yang is not long. Only the combination of yin and yang, fire and water help each other.
Marriage and emotional changes make people uncertain. The divorce rate remains high in modern times, and widows are not uncommon, but it is not all disasters caused by years and zodiac signs. However, when the year coincides with the zodiac, there are also disasters. Regardless of men and women, the proportion of crime is still very large. Bad style, the column and the cadres and branches of both sides, mostly committed crimes.
2. The eight-character balance between men and women is five elements.
For example, Geng Xu, a male born in 1970, and Yi Mao, a female born in 1975, are the most reasonable collocation. The first and second lives are the same, the male life is golden, and the female life is golden. On the second day, heaven and earth merged, that is, heaven and earth merged; The third male life is sunny, while the female life is cloudy. Masculinity is the characteristic of men, femininity is the characteristic of women. This murder case not only considers the combination of life and genus, but also considers the combination of heavenly stems and earthly branches, so he is not afraid of evil in the column, and he is not afraid of resistance. Because the annual column is the foundation and the two trees blend together, we must have a solid foundation and grow old together.
3. Marry according to the zodiac. Those who are in conflict, injury and discord can't get married.
There is a song about marriage in "The Golden Book of Wanbao Sagger": A white horse is not afraid of green cows, sheep and mice meet, everything stops, snakes meet tigers like knives, pigs meet apes, dragons meet rabbits like clouds, and golden roosters meet dogs with tears. The songs and wisdom mentioned above are also mentioned in many articles. For example, in real family life, when a horse marries an ugly cow at noon, couples are prone to quarrel; Another example is that the pig and the ape didn't arrive at the end, because the ape and the snake became one, and the pig rushed to the snake, so they couldn't be used together. Pigs and apes harm each other, and mutual harm is harmful to loneliness. Of course, mutual harm is not good, but it depends on whether it is controlled. Those who have control might as well, but those who have no control are unfavorable.
What should I do if the eight characters don't match: 1, and both men and women compromise and tolerate. Contradictions in life are generally caused by both sides. As long as one of them breaks the rules, makes the greatest tolerance, and even sacrifices his so-called dignity and value, it can be reconciled. If you go your own way, you will never be able to stick to your point of view.
2, displacement adjustment: that is, working and living in the direction of God, if God is wood, go to the east of the birthplace; Take an active part in work and forget your misfortune.
3. Separate for a while: the two sides will not meet for the time being, calm down and not contact, and then continue to fall in love after the disaster period;
4, accumulate virtue and do good deeds: do more good deeds, help the old and bring up the young, make more contributions to society and others, help the homeless, save a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda. Don't do evil, don't do things that violate morality and law, so as not to hurt others and yourself, and lose money and lose morality. All evils come first, and the bad road cannot be taken. Heaven is husband and wife, and lewdness is not allowed. It's best to be vegetarian if you don't kill animals, and don't go to restaurants that kill animals, such as seafood shops and chicken towns. I suggest that you don't kill animals and release them more.
5. Honor each other's parents and love each other. Heaven and hell law, Yin law, the most severe punishment for the crime of unfilial, especially for those who are daughters-in-law. So be filial to your parents, especially the parents and relatives of the other party. Usually, we should support our parents spiritually and materially so that the elderly can enjoy their old age. We should also be kind to our elders and close to them.
6. Expand the amount of happiness and be patient in everything. Everything is inclusive, regardless. Accept and face everything with a true, pure and enlightened heart, don't worry, and keep your body and mind clean forever. We should love softness, be equal and compassionate, treat all people and things, make unjust relatives equal without any hostility, but be compassionate.
7. divorce. As a last resort, it is impossible to mediate, and it is best to divorce happily, which is a relief for both parties. Don't pester. If the couple's personality, fate and atmosphere are fierce, it is subjective and unbearable. If they don't get divorced, one or both of them will be killed or injured. In this case, divorce is the way to completely solve the marriage disaster.