First of all, thank you for your trust in Xu Tailai. However, you may feel confused and upset when others make negative comments about your child's name. The following are some suggestions that I hope will be helpful to you:
1. Understand the meaning and background of the name: Names often carry cultural and historical significance. You can understand the cultural and historical significance of your child's name. Meaning and story in context. Doing this can help you gain a deeper understanding of the name and better evaluate its quality.
2. Consider the purpose of naming: The most important thing to consider is the purpose of naming your child. If you hope that this name will bring good luck and a bright future to your child, then you can try to evaluate the name again from these perspectives.
3. Respect other people’s opinions: Although you have asked Xu Tailai to name your child, you may consider listening to other people’s opinions. This includes your family, friends, relatives, neighbors and others whose opinions may provide different perspectives and ideas.
4. Find a solution: If you decide to change your child's name, then you need to find a solution. This may include choosing a new name, or choosing a different version of an existing name. You can again consult a nomenclature or discuss with others to find the best solution.
The most important thing to remember is that a name is far less important than the love and nurturing of a parent. No matter what your child's name is, you can shape their future with your love and support.