Naming with cold or cold characters will make people confused
A person’s name is originally a symbol for people to call, and is used for communication. Use strange and uncommon characters to make people’s names. Sometimes even scholars with rich knowledge cannot recognize them, let alone ordinary people. How do you call someone such a name? Obviously, if a name cannot be recognized by others, it will lose part of its existence value. If there is a person who wants to date you, but the pronunciation of your name is too uncommon for others to read and write, do you think they would have the nerve to ask you how to pronounce your name before further dating you? Probably that person I can only sigh at the sight of fame, but hesitate when I see fame.
The number of Chinese characters in our country is very large. The "Kangxi Dictionary" alone contains 42,174 characters. In addition, there are often very subtle differences between traditional and simplified characters, ancient and modern characters, and traditional and popular characters. In the past, when people were choosing names, they always liked to look through the Kangxi Dictionary. This approach is not advisable, because although there are many characters in the Kangxi Dictionary, more than 30,000 characters are uncommon and can be recognized by ordinary people. Chinese characters are generally around 3,000 characters.
If we want to use a reference book when choosing a name, it is best to use the "Modern Chinese Dictionary". It also includes words related to the word under each word, which is of great reference value for naming. However, you should also be careful when using this reference book. You should avoid the uncommon words in it as much as possible when using it.
We all know that in this era, computers have become one of the commonly used tools in our work and life, and the Chinese characters stored by most computers are limited to commonly used characters. If you use some uncommon words when naming, which most people don't recognize, many people will ask when meeting them for the first time: "How do you pronounce this word? What does it mean?" Naming with uncommon words brings a lot of trouble to people's lives and will inevitably affect people. Communication with people.
In order to avoid duplication of names, some people choose to name their children with rare characters such as 氍, 芏, siam, 镱, 鄄, etc. Not only do most people cannot read them when they see them, It is not possible to pronounce or shout accurately, and some irregular words cannot be typed on a computer at all.
When naming names, some people always like to use unusual words that cannot be found in dictionaries and cannot be typed on a computer. Perhaps these people think that it is better to use words that ordinary people do not recognize. Naming people with unusual characters will give people a good impression of being knowledgeable and educated. In fact, this is not the case. Not only does such a name fail to give people a sense of elegance and novelty, but it will convey the impression of being pretentious, hypocritical, and aloof. , information that is not easy to get along with. The motivation for people to choose uncommon words when naming is actually very simple. In the final analysis, it is just to avoid being cliché.
Some parents often believe that a name is the most precious gift a parent gives to a child in his or her life. It is very meaningful to choose a name and read many books. But as mentioned above, the common words that people generally know are only three to four thousand words, and we must have the understanding that the main purpose of choosing a name is to be called by others, not to show off knowledge. In social interactions, such names often bring a lot of inconvenience and embarrassment to oneself and others. And from a psychological point of view, when a person cannot recognize or pronounce another person's name, he will inevitably have an unpleasant feeling and may even be unwilling to interact with him. This is because some Chinese characters are unfamiliar and difficult to pronounce, which makes them difficult to read and difficult to pronounce. As a commonly used word, names can easily offend people if they are unfamiliar and weird. Although this weird name has a low repetition rate, it gives people an awkward and awkward feeling. A psychology expert has made statistics. If a person is named with a relatively uncommon word, his social skills will generally be poor, and 80% of them are withdrawn. It seems that this makes sense.
For example, when you apply for a job in a certain unit, if the supervisor does not recognize your name after reading your resume, then his impression of you will definitely be very vague. If he pronounces your name wrong when he calls you, you have to correct him. This situation may make the leader feel embarrassed. If your leader feels embarrassed or even angry because he has lost face, you may also feel contempt for him because he doesn't even know your name. In the process of getting along with superiors and subordinates in the future, some discord or disharmony may occur.
Finding some unfamiliar, cold, weird, unusual, and complicated characters to name your child will not only bring inconvenience to others, but also bring trouble to the person who named the name and the owner of the name. Come to a lot of trouble. If the name is entered incorrectly, written incorrectly, or spelled incorrectly, it will be very troublesome to change it in the future. Especially in the modern information society, names that are too refined will bring a lot of inconvenience to people. Because of the use of raw, cold, weird, unusual, and complex Chinese characters, children may not be able to register for residence or school registration, and it will be difficult to apply for an ID card when they grow up. You must know that in modern society it may be difficult to move around without documents, which will bring great troubles to life.
Legally, you are completely free to name your child. The "Resident Identity Card Law" only requires that resident ID cards be filled in with standardized Chinese characters and digits that comply with national standards. This only indirectly requires that the name on the resident ID card must be in standard Chinese characters. If the name uses non-standard Chinese characters, the public security agency may not issue you an ID card. From the perspective of humanistic care and social life, there is no need to set legal regulations for naming or use legal regulations to regulate people's naming behavior, but the use of irregular Chinese characters in names will indeed bring some unnecessary problem.
Of course, it is undeniable that China has such a large population but so few commonly used words. It is easy to have the same name as others without using special words. Even if you do not encounter anyone with the same name, some people will make mistakes. I thought that it was impossible to come up with an elegant name using common words. Of course, when choosing a name, you should try to avoid clichés and similarities as much as possible, but you can't rely on using uncommon words. The use of uncommon words not only affects the image but also hinders communication. It can be said that the gain outweighs the gain.