How much do Chinese people pay attention to their names?

A name is a personal mark of a person in society. In social situations, old classmates and old friends who have not seen each other for more than ten years will immediately become as close as before as long as they remember each other's name. When you meet for the first time, after exchanging business cards and distinguishing between Zhang, Li, Si, Wang, Wu, Ma and Liu, you can slowly start to get intimate with them. In the past, there was a saying that "writing is like its person" and "words are like its person". Now, foreign psychologists have proposed that names have a subtle influence on a person's life, and "a name is like the person it is." An elegant and profound name is as beautiful as poetry, picturesque, and mellow as wine. It is not only memorable, but also consciously or unconsciously cultivates the soul of the name owner, improves his behavior, and plays a subtle role. Nowadays, we promote eugenics and education and pay attention to the quality of the population. Naming your child is a sacred and glorious task that cannot be taken lightly. Unborn or newly born babies cannot care about their names, nor do they know how to worry about them. Parents must hurry up and finalize the name of their child before the child registers for household registration; it must be nice to hear, easy to call, easy to remember and easy to write, and it must be unique and unique. It is really not an easy thing to let children grow up without blaming...etc. There are certain things to pay attention to when naming. Avoid conventions and conventions when choosing the first name. In real life, many people's names still revolve around the yin and yang, the five elements, and the eight characters of birth date. They hold the books of Yili, Bagua, and Xianfa to predict bad luck and discuss the eight characters. So Zhao Jinbao, Zhang Youde, Chen Shuzhen, Li Laifu, etc. are all old-fashioned Names began to accompany them. In addition, simple names, uncommon names, names of ancestors and sages, convoluted names, indecent names, overly fashionable names, and overly flattering names should all be avoided. The art of naming, although the name itself is just a Such symbols, people still painstakingly deliberate over and over again when naming, hoping to get a distinctive name. As a result, some people are satisfied, while others have to regret it for the rest of their lives. So, can we find one or more ways to prevent people from bumping into each other aimlessly when naming? We believe that there are rules to follow in naming. The main reason why many people cannot get satisfactory naming is that they violate the rules of naming. The key to naming is word choice. Judging from the current naming situation, generally, word selection is simply a matter of looking up a dictionary, and the standard for word selection is simply choosing so-called "good words." Can you find a good name just by looking in the dictionary? The answer is maybe. You may be delighted and think that you have discovered a good name that comes once in a lifetime. But when I tell others about it, the answer is often: "This name? Oh, isn't the child of the Wang family downstairs also called this name!" Why is this? Due to the influence of the different cultural atmosphere, people have a different understanding of the so-called The understanding of "good character" is roughly the same, and the result of naming is often that the heroes have similar views. The number of Chinese characters is limited, and the number of "good characters" can be said to be pitifully small. If you want to obtain good aesthetic effects, you must break through the traditional way of character selection, find new ways, broaden your thinking, and find a new realm in a new world.