In order to realize this life trajectory of their children, parents spend all their energy on their children and try their best to give them the best things in the world. So I didn’t even dare to be careless about the names of my children. Even before they were born, I started reading books, looking up information on the Internet, and asking professional teachers in order to choose a good name for them that would really bring good luck. So, when it comes to naming your child, what are the six things you don’t want to do? The teacher shares his experience with everyone!
1. Don’t give a name before birth
The name can play a role in promoting good luck and harmonizing the user. The most fundamental thing is that the name can play an acquired role in the user’s horoscope. Make up for the role of matching. The so-called horoscope must have a specific date of birth before it can be listed in detail. When the newborn is not born, all birth times are just people's predictions and predictions in advance. This time is different from the actual birth of the child. There are basically deviations in the time. As the saying goes, a slight deviation can make a huge difference. If the time is wrong, there will be deviations in the child's destiny. If the name is chosen before the child is born, it is very likely that the chosen name will not have any beneficial effect on the child's future, and the name will only exist as a simple name.
2. Don’t choose names based on online test scores
Nowadays, there are many online name testing and scoring software, but these name testing and scoring software are largely just for entertainment purposes. To truly analyze the specific good or bad effects of a name on the user requires the brain power and professional knowledge of a name teacher. Therefore, the so-called name score on the Internet is only a numerical value for reference. Even if it reaches 100 points, if the name does not fit well with the user's destiny, 100 points will become a failure or even 0 points. Therefore, whether a name can really play a positive role in a child's fate cannot be proven by a few numbers. It must be the most consistent with the child's horoscope.
3. Don’t use too uncommon words
There are only a few commonly used words in China, and common surnames also have a high repetition rate, and parents all want their children to To be able to be unique and different from others, we do not use commonly used words when naming, and only use rare words that few people use. The name composed of rare characters does make the child "alone", but it is lonely alone. Imagine a child in class whose name is too rare. The teacher doesn’t recognize it and is not sure about it. He dare not read it casually to avoid losing the teacher’s authority. Therefore, it is difficult for a child with a name that is too rare to be called by the teacher to answer questions. Over time, it is easy to discourage children from raising their hands, which is not conducive to character development. In a group, if the child's name is too uncommon, the friends are reluctant to call it, or they like to give it a nickname. Over time, it will not be conducive to the child's interactions with others. It can be seen that names with uncommon characters will actually have a certain impact on the growth of children.
4. Don’t use compound names or use them less often
The compound names are friendly and pleasant to the ears. It is okay to use them when you are young, but as the children grow up, the names will become more and more difficult to use. It shows squeamishness. Girls who use compound names often give people a sense of prostitution and are unfavorable to marriage; boys who use compound names often give people a sense of being unmasculine and unenterprising. Regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl, it is feasible to use a mixed-character name as a nickname. However, in order to be more conducive to the child's future growth and development, it is best not to use a formal name with repeated characters
5. Do not use The names of famous ancestors
Using the names of ancestors as a name will be regarded as disrespectful to the ancestors. In addition, it will disrupt the order of generation and make people unable to distinguish their identities. If the names of celebrities, great men, and sages are mechanically copied, it will not only fail to reflect personal characteristics, but will also be regarded as disrespectful to them, such as Li Dazhao, Guan Yunchang, etc. Some literary figures are not suitable as names, such as "Meng Jiangnu", "Sun Wukong", etc.
6. Don’t use polyphonic and complicated characters
Phonetic characters will have multiple pronunciations, which can easily cause misunderstandings, such as "Chao", "Chang", "Qian", " It is best not to name polyphonic characters such as "行" to avoid mispronunciation.
If you want to select polyphonic characters, it is best to mark the pronunciation by concatenating them into meanings. For example: Cui Letian, Meng Lezhang. The former uses "天" to indicate that "乐" should be read as lè, and the latter uses "Zhang" to indicate that "乐" should be read as yuè. In addition, "complex" characters refer to characters with many strokes and complex structures. Such characters are not only troublesome to write and unsightly, but too many complex characters in the name will make people feel depressed.
★Teacher’s suggestions for baby naming
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1. Baby’s surname:
2. Baby’s gender:
3. Date of birth in Gregorian calendar (i.e. New Calendar): year, month, day, hour (if you are not yet born, come here, because you can’t name it because there are no horoscopes)
4 , Province and city of birth
5. Does not include surname, 1-letter or 2-letter name (choose one):
6. Name of baby’s parents: (name of baby’s elders to avoid The same word or the same pronunciation)
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Many parents already understand the importance of naming your baby. I won’t go into too much explanation here, but naming a newborn baby still gives many parents a headache. Here, the teacher gives some specific suggestions on some issues to pay attention to when naming your baby. I hope it will be helpful to you.
1. Check the five elements of happiness and taboos. The five elements are determined based on the baby's birth year and month, that is, the birth date.
2. Avoid using uncommon and cold words.
3. Font shapes and strokes should not be too complex or lengthy.
4. Distinguish between yin and yang. If the yang is strong, the yin name is given, and if the yin is strong, the yang name is given.
5. Avoid similar or identical initials and finals.
6. Avoid the same tones and have the beauty of phonetics, that is, the agility of the phonology should be good.
7. Avoid using words with the same or similar radicals.
8. Easy to remember and write, avoid childishness, and easy to use for a long time.
9. Homophones have no indecent meaning.
10. Novel creativity and rich meaning.
11. Name according to the zodiac sign.
12. Pay attention to the balance of light and heavy fonts and the beauty of fonts.
13. The issue of duplicate names must be considered.
14. Adjust special words according to specific requirements.