Wen | Mother Tomato
Although the name is only a person's code name, we will find that this code name is quite important. Some people have bad names, and people will make fun of you all their lives. However, a catchy and good name makes people respect. Therefore, it is an important task for parents to give their children a good name after their birth.
a few years ago, I don't know what kind of fashion it was, and all the children born were named "Zixuan" and "Zihan". The kindergarten teachers all said, "Zi Han" was called, and a dozen children all agreed. Children's names are too popular, which seem tacky when they are young, and may bring a lot of trouble to children's lives when they grow up.
Mother Xiaowen gave birth to a baby son. Her husband grew up with his grandfather, and now his grandfather has been dead for many years. The young couple plan to call the child "Li Yun" as a memorial to the old man. However, the children's grandparents are very opposed, thinking that this is disrespectful to the elderly who have passed away. There is no way, Xiaowen and his wife can only give up. Grandparents named their children "Yinuo".
In a blink of an eye, Xiao Yinuo reached the age of kindergarten. Unexpectedly, there are two children named "Yinuo" and two children named "Nuoyi" in the children's kindergarten class.
The teachers joked that after graduating from a batch of Zixuan and Zihan, there came a batch of "No.1" and "No.1", which are usually called attendance in the class, which makes people dizzy. "No.1", "Jia Nuo", "Zhi Nuo" and "Morning Nuo" ... The teacher said it was quite helpless.
China has a large population, and there are many people with the same name. Moreover, many old people avoid naming their children, so it is not easy to give them a loud and meaningful name.
There are some taboos about naming names, so parents should not make them.
the same name as the ancestors or elders, or the same word.
There are two neighbors, who were originally related by clan, because some things had conflicts. At this time, the little grandson of one family was born, and he called the grandfather's name of another family directly. From then on, there is no possibility of reconciliation between the two families. In China, it is taboo to use the words in the names of our elders, which shows disrespect for our elders.
When foreigners name their children, they often ask their children to call them by their elders' names in memory of their elders, or elders have high hopes for their children. However, in our country, naming is to avoid the names of elders. For example, in a family named Meng, every different generation will have the same word. If you use the words in the names of the previous generation, you will be confused. Therefore, when naming children, we should avoid the names of close friends, relatives and elders.
don't follow the trend in naming children.
If you don't want to be blamed by children in the future, it's best for parents not to follow the trend when naming their children. In the early days of the People's Republic of China, many people called it "Jianguo" and "Jianshe", but now there are many "Zixuan" and "Zihan". Once parents catch up with the trend, children's names will inevitably ruin the streets. There are many people who use the same name as themselves, which is also a very unpleasant thing to think of. This name has the flavor of the times, and it will directly expose your age.
Don't use uncommon words or polyphonic words when naming children.
Don't use uncommon words when naming children. It won't show that you are very cultured, and it will only make children very embarrassed in the future. Imagine if a child's teacher can't pronounce the child's name, the child's leader mispronounced his name, and the child's classmates changed the name directly. The most embarrassing thing is the child himself.
It's a common surname, so it's better not to name your child as a single word.
"Zhang Wang, Li Zhao and Liu everywhere", these common surnames, have a large population. Therefore, if the child's surname is common, it is best not to give a single-word name, such as "Li Na", "Li Li" and "Zhang Wei" ... there will be many duplicate names, which will bring inconvenience to later life.
don't be overjoyed when naming your child.
There was once a child whose name was "Tsinghua". It can be seen that when the child was just born, parents held great hopes for the child. However, the child's academic performance was poor and he was often teased by his classmates.
When parents name their children, they all have good hopes for their children's future, but they can't be too ambitious. A boy's parents usually want him to succeed in his career, but such straightforward names as "success", "success" and "making a fortune" seem a bit eager for quick success. For a girl, parents want her to be beautiful, but it's a bit tacky to call her "beautiful" or "gorgeous" directly.
Giving a child a name has a positive meaning, and then it is catchy, not easy to mispronounce, and easy to write. It is enough to be pleasant to hear, easy to remember and meaningful.