1, some roommates are born with "personality incompatibility"?
Roommates who are randomly assigned may have different opinions, and their characters are incompatible, so they are destined to be friends. When many people have conflicts with their roommates, they will first think about whether they have done anything wrong, which is the best. Spit it out and you'll find yourself wonderful and embarrassed. ?
College students, all from all corners of the country, are assigned to a dormitory according to their student numbers or surnames or other strange "rules", just like catching a few passers-by in the street and putting them in a room. They may or may not get along. ?
2. What is more terrible than a bad roommate is a "bad guy"?
Many students are like this. They are obviously too busy. When others call them, they go to help at once. Obviously, they are hard up and have to take the initiative to help others. Afterwards, they fell into infinite remorse and regret. Some people don't want to ask and want to refuse, but they are afraid that the roommate relationship will deteriorate. ?
This is a typical "bad guy", which is also commonly known as flattering personality. This kind of person feels very docile and comfortable, but he doesn't know how to refuse unreasonable demands from others, cares too much about others' feelings and wronged himself.
In college, what is more terrible than meeting a bad roommate is that you are willing to be a "bad guy". It's a bit sad to maintain love with loss, just as sad to maintain friendship with blind tolerance. Kindness has no bottom line, and the world will lose its principles. If you give unconditionally, others will take it for granted. ?
3. Is it possible to be good friends without being a roommate?
It is said that the dormitory relationship in universities is one of the top ten headaches for students. However, many people can actually talk well without the friction between daily life and life. The key is that the gap between people's living habits is too big, but there is no choice. ?
Several people with different hobbies, personalities and backgrounds live together. Some people can smile and pretend that there is nothing, while others can turn their faces for four years. After graduation, looking back, it's actually just trivial things. ?
If you don't become roommates, you can still be good friends. In college, some people are really unfit to be bosom friends. The best state is to stay out of it. The advantage of this kind of mutual interference is that you don't have to consider every word you say in the dormitory every day, and you don't have to compromise yourself to cater to others and take your favorite road. After all, you don't have to be friends. Good friends don't have to be in the dormitory.
Ways to get along with roommates
1, try to unify the schedule with roommates and give tolerance and understanding in daily life.
Everyone has their own different habits and lifestyles, and roommates are no exception. To maintain a harmonious relationship with roommates, we should try to unify the schedule with roommates and try not to disturb others when the dormitory is resting. And learn to correct your bad habits so as not to bring unnecessary trouble to others.
For your roommate's living habits, if it doesn't affect you much, you should learn to be tolerant and understanding. If it brings you trouble, you should know how to communicate with your roommate politely.
2, don't engage in "small groups", should treat everyone equally.
The most important thing to get along with is mutual respect. We met by fate. Learn to tolerate the shortcomings of roommates, and don't speak ill of another roommate in front of one roommate. Making friends with each roommate instead of "small groups" is not conducive to the harmony of dormitory relations.