For singles who work outside the home, it is a great challenge to go home every National Day and Spring Festival.
Because every time you go home, there will always be several elders asking you questions: "Have you found someone?" "Shall I arrange some for you?"
Last month's National Day, an older single cousin was unfortunately arranged by her elders for a blind date. In this regard, the elders said: "At your cousin's age, there is no other requirement, just a good girl."
In our hometown, well, it actually means Wang Fu. People in my hometown can bring more luck to my family than Wang Fu's daughter-in-law. Therefore, the first thing to see is whether she is Wang Fu.
Whether a woman is rich or not depends not on her horoscope, but on whether she has these three qualities.
( 1)
Can you "keep your money"
It is said that it is easier to attack a city than to defend it. In fact, the same is true of money. Nowadays, with the continuous improvement of the quality of life, many people's views on money are "not used now, when to use it?"
This is quite different from the previous consumption concept, but it is also more in line with the "free and easy" temperament of the younger generation.
But this concept of consumption is obviously beyond the affordability of a family, because there are too many accidents in life and it depends on money. A serious illness and unemployment may destroy a family.
So at this time, the family's financial manager is needed to manage and arrange the family's expenditure and income.
Women's position in the family is not only the wife, daughter-in-law and mother, but also the "money housekeeper" of this family, responsible for properly handling the financial consumption of this family, and also playing an exemplary role in the expenditure of other people in the family.
(2)
Is it "reasonable"
To be reasonable means to be considerate in the face of right and wrong, to care about the big and the small, to be long-term and to be reasonable.
And a sensible woman, who knows how to grasp a degree of marriage, will not let everyone know because of a contradiction with her husband, and will not embarrass her family because of a disagreement with relatives and friends.
People in my hometown often regard the story of a divorced woman that has been circulating on the street for a long time as a new wife, not like her.
This divorced woman, from marriage to divorce, can be summed up in one word: "Left". When I first got married, I changed the relationship between my husband and my brother because I didn't like my sister-in-law, which led to the last two brothers becoming enemies.
Although she achieved the goal of driving her sister-in-law out of her nose, in order to achieve this goal, she did not hesitate to make a family restless and finally fragmented. Its means are really terrible.
So people in my hometown think that this family will be better if my daughter-in-law is sensible. A sensible woman is really Wangfu in this respect.
(3)
Is it "family-oriented"
The most important thing in a person's life is family. And family is too important for a person's growth and a person's future pattern.
Whether it is a poor family or a rich family, it is good that a family can be happy. So at this time, as an indispensable woman in the family, its role and influence are also very great.
Running a marriage is actually running a family. How to shape your ideal appearance depends on whether the person running the marriage takes care of the family.
With this family in my heart, I naturally want to consider the development of this family, but if I don't pay attention to this family, as a result, marriage will break down, and it is inevitable that there will be a lot of smoke.
No one wants to stay in an uncomfortable environment for a long time, so it is extremely important to make this home comfortable and stable.
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What kind of women do you think are more prosperous?
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The above is an eight-character test about whether Wang Fu is a husband, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I read Wang Fu's eight-character features, and hope this will help everyone!