What does it mean to indulge in love?

Spoiling is "excessive love", which refers to a feature of the relationship between caregivers and children, meaning that children are too spoiled and spoiled by their own temper. Spoiling means giving satisfaction and protection to unfair material feelings. At this time, the caregiver protected the child, but also hindered any efforts of the child to act independently.

The form of drowning love:

1, easy to satisfy, do not know how to cherish. Give children what they want and meet all the requirements, which leads children to ask too much of their parents. When parents can't meet their needs, children will think that their parents don't love them anymore, and they may be resentful and develop bad characters such as not knowing how to make concessions and being arrogant.

2. Children do everything right and don't distinguish right from wrong. The child clearly made a mistake, and the parents knew that the child had a problem, but refused to admit it or criticize education, resulting in the child having no view of right and wrong.

3, arranged instead, lack of responsibility. No matter how old a child is, his parents always regard him as a child who doesn't grow up and arrange him to take his place. This practice is not conducive to cultivating children's sense of independence, leading to children's lack of sense of responsibility and dependence on others. In the long run, it is likely to become a "giant baby" when you grow up.

4, face to face, bullying. "Xiong Haizi" is followed by "Xiong's parents", and "Xiong Haizi" is probably before "Xiong's parents". Some parents themselves lack formal education, fail to develop good habits and are unreasonable when they grow up. Parents' words and deeds are printed in children's hearts, and in the long run, children will bully others.