1. It doesn't coincide with the date of marriage. The first thing to choose an auspicious day for marriage is to look at the date, and first look at whether it is consistent with the new couple's birthdates.
2. It doesn't conflict with the wedding day. According to the relationship between the birth of each other and the twelve earthly branches, for example, a good day is the ninth day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar, and the three pillars of the year, month, and day are: Wuxu, Xinyou, and Guichou, which are in harmony with each other. Adding auspicious gods such as Yuede and Tianen on that day, it is the most beautiful day.
3. It doesn't conflict with the wedding time. After choosing the date, it is the time to choose. Similarly, it is still good for each other, and it is bad for each other. For example, if a new person's birthday is Chen Shi, then it is necessary to avoid choosing ugly time, Mao Shi, Chen Shi and Qi Shi.
How to find the best wedding date
1- Choose leap year leap month
Most people in China attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the saying of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. If you want to choose an auspicious day for your wedding, it's best to have a leap month. This will add some fortune to your married life!
2- Avoid the 379
It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with "Qingming", "Yulan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events. And in the full moon "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for weddings.
3- Avoid Sanniang
In the ancient myths and legends in China, it is learned that in the past, Yuelao did not lead the red line for Sanniang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on her revenge, Sanniang often rebelled against Yuelao, especially ruining the happy events of new people. Therefore, there are special days of each month, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the thirteenth day, the eighteenth day, the twenty-second day and the twenty-seventh day, which are not suitable for marriage.
4- Marriage Date Selection Method
There is an old saying: "Men should marry when they are older, and women should marry when they are older", but we must not be disturbed by this idea, because marriage also requires a fortune teller to choose a date for you. Generally, the criteria for choosing a date for fortune tellers are: based on the date of birth of the bride and referring to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "When the child is born, the woman is married by the line." Commonly known as measuring eight characters! If couples who don't get married according to the above statement are bound to have an ominous sign after marriage, it may also lead to the end of their marriage!