0 1。 Chen Fei (pseudonym) comes from a single-parent family. She has been dependent on her mother since childhood. She is not only self-improvement, but also lacks love in her heart. After graduating from high school, she wandered around and opened a dessert shop a few years later. She was the first person to take the professional baking route in her hometown, so she quickly earned the first bucket of gold and bought a house. Lu Xiao (pseudonym) is a frequent visitor in this shop, because Chen Fei often buys cupcakes for his mother, and Chen Fei left a good impression on him.
They fell in love and soon became lovers. From then on, Xiaoji often came to the store to help. Chen Fei knew that his family was poor, so he often offered desserts and offered a "salary" of 2,000 pounds a month. The deer didn't mean to refuse. Because Chen Fu lost his father's love since childhood and lacked care for a long time, Chen Fei fell in love with a boy who could accompany him and express his love. Although she knew that the other person had many shortcomings, she didn't care.
02。 When she met her parents for the first time, she was despised: "My son is an excellent student, and I don't like uneducated girls." Chen Fei was very angry and disappointed, but she said some sweet words to the deer. Next, she is looking forward to getting married again. Everyone's attitude changed when Chen Fei's monthly income was 30,000 yuan. However, the deer's parents are not going to give an engagement present. They asked the other party for a dowry of 50 thousand yuan as a decoration for their hometown. After some consideration, Chen Fei chose to agree.
The wedding is very simple. Chen Fei not only has no master of ceremonies, no team, no flowers or even a camera, but also feels very sad. After the guests left, her in-laws asked her to pay for the banquet, which made her extremely cold. After the marriage, my mother-in-law moved to a new home. Because Chen Fei was busy with her work, her mother-in-law gave her home a "big renovation". She not only brought a lot of daily necessities back to her hometown, but also liked to "open the cupboard" and express her views. In her living habits, her mother-in-law intervenes everywhere, even the color of the sheets has to be decided by her. When there are differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Lu Xiao always chooses to avoid or scold Chen Fei with her mother.
03。 Chen Fei has been depressed since she got married. She didn't want her mother to worry, so she compromised everywhere, but no matter how he gave up, she still didn't get attention. Later, my mother-in-law took her friends home to play cards for the night. And no matter how he persuaded the deer, he would not seek encouragement or indulge in games. By chance, Chen Fei discovered the fact of online dating, but her mother-in-law said rudely, "This is not true love, make a fuss." Chen Fei is a love-hate person. She became discouraged at once and it was cold. Then she moved back to her birthplace and filed for divorce. But a few days later, my mother-in-law called and said, "Grandpa, I won't stop you from getting divorced, but you must move out of our house. This house belongs to my son, because you have to compensate him for his losses. " "Dream, this is my room. It doesn't matter to you Please move it immediately. " After hanging up the phone, Chen Fei woke up like a dream with mixed feelings.
I have something to say:
Due to the long-term lack of love, Chen Fei lost the reason for falling in love. Her compromise was not understood, and her efforts were not rewarded. Later, she almost faced betrayal, but she was excellent, so she had the capital to cope with the changes. Deer not only lack a sense of responsibility, but also lack self-understanding and gratitude. In life, he has no initiative and no distinction between right and wrong. In love, he is disloyal and irresponsible. Such people are doomed to be unable to remain happy. It is my pleasure to know a lover who protects you and is willing to pay. What we have to do is to cherish and repay our hearts. Give your spouse enough respect and warmth, and he will love you as always. Don't always think from your own point of view, and don't put all the blame on your lover. Ignoring your own problems and failing to undertake the corresponding tasks is equivalent to challenging each other's bottom line and personally ruining your love. .
Women long to be taken care of and want to be accepted. As a man, you should use your own promotion to give her a sense of security, provide her with a long-term residence and give her a sense of belonging. As an elder, you should improve your quality and pass it on to your children warmly. In the rest of my life, find someone who knows you and "warm" you. In this life, you will meet many passers-by Meeting true love at the right age is a great wealth, but because of blindness and impulsiveness, many people make choices easily. If you choose the wrong person, you will pay a huge price. In the rest of your life, you can only grasp long-term happiness if you find someone who understands you and warms you with your heart.