A name is very important to a person. Parents will be extremely careful when naming their children, wanting to give their children a name that sounds good and has a beautiful meaning. After all, the name will accompany the child throughout his life. This matter cannot be taken lightly.
Many parents pay attention to the problem of "duplicate names" when naming their children. They don't want the rate of duplicate names to be too high, otherwise it will cause a lot of embarrassment. But some people not only meet someone with the same name as them, but also marry this person. What kind of experience is this?
There are a bunch of young couples born in the 1990s who have attracted a lot of attention because of their names. They met through the Internet, and later they met and felt that each other was very good, so they started falling in love and finally decided to get married.
When registering their marriage, the registration staff asked them for their names. They both said the same name. The registration staff thought they had heard wrongly, so they took another look at their household registration books. It was discovered that the couple had the same name.
This young couple is both named Li Qiuyi. From acquaintance to marriage, it did not take too long for the two of them. It is precisely because of the same name that the distance between the two Li Qiuyi has been shortened.
The man said that after the two met, he directly showed his ID card to the other person, and the two developed a relationship. It is precisely because they have the same name that their relationship will become better. .
What is it like for a couple to have the same name? The male Li Qiuyi said that the experience was very bad. Having the same name has caused trouble for both of them. For example, when a friend calls "Li Qiuyi", they both often agree at the same time. And now they are facing a problem, that is, they don't know what to give to their child. What name to give.
Although it is very romantic for a couple to have the same name, the couple don’t know what name they should give their child. After all, the parents’ names are very special, so the child’s name cannot be too common. It’s best if it’s the same as your parents’ names, which is not only unique but also nice to hear. It’s also best if it’s the same as your parents’ names so that people can remember it after hearing it once.
Some netizens said that the child might as well be called "Li Qiuyi". In this way, all three members of the family would have the same name, which would be more distinctive and leave a deeper impression on people.
But if the child is also named Li Qiuyi, it will cause more embarrassing things in the future. For example, when parents attend the child's parent-teacher meeting, the child may stand up together with the parents when the teacher calls the name.
In addition, when children grow up, they will also be confused about their own names and those of their parents, and it is easy for them to mix up the names of a family of three, which can cause a lot of embarrassment.
Some netizens also suggested that the parents' name is Qiu Yi, which sounds a bit like "Qiu Yi", and the child can be called Li Qiuku, which is homophonic to "Qiu pants" and matches the parents' names very well. But this is just a joke. Parents should not be too casual when naming their children. Parents must be cautious.
1. Pay attention to homophonic issues
Some parents do not think carefully when naming their children, resulting in homophonic issues. For example, I have a junior high school classmate named "Liu Yuejing", whose father's surname is Liu, whose mother’s surname is Yue, means that children are the fruit of parents’ love. It sounds okay, but if you read it a few times, you will find the homophony problem.
If the child's name has homophonic problems, the child may become the target of ridicule by classmates in the future, causing the child to have low self-esteem and timidity, which will affect the child's growth.
2. Pay attention to duplication of names
Parents should also pay attention to the problem of duplication of names. In the past, people liked to use "Shufen", "Jianguo" and "Liqin" when naming names. "And so on, resulting in a high rate of duplicate names, and if you listen to these names now, you will feel too ordinary.
Nowadays, the duplication rate of some names is also very high, such as "Zi Han", "Haoran", "Zixuan", etc. Parents should pay attention to this issue when naming their children. Don't name their children too much. Popular name.
3. Don’t use uncommon words
Some young parents are very fashionable and like to pursue individuality. The same is true when naming their children. They will use uncommon words, thinking that this will not appear Duplicate name problem.
It is best for parents not to use uncommon characters when naming their children, because uncommon characters are rare and not recognized by many people. When the children go to school in the future, there will be an embarrassing situation when the teacher calls the name.
In addition, some rare characters are not widely used, so the computer cannot type the word. There was once a student who was taking the postgraduate entrance examination because the computer could not type the rare characters in her name, which caused her to miss out. take an exam.
In short, parents should not be too casual when giving names to their children, and should pay attention to the problem of duplicate names. Otherwise, when the children go to school, they will often meet people with the same name as themselves, which will make the children feel very embarrassed.
Parents should give their children a good-sounding name. It should not be too personal, but it should not be too popular. It should have a beautiful meaning. This kind of name is most suitable for the child.
I am Tianju’s mother, a full-time mother. You are welcome to share your opinions on “names” in the message area.